Critical Theory has created an anti-intellectual movement not only throughout most academic disciplines, but it has poisoned popular discourse on any number of issues. It has become like one of those games you play on road trips where you try to find numbers or colors or letters in the landscape. The game now is; racism is everywhere, in every situation; you just have to find it. Same with misogyny. Same with any of the various quasi-phobias. Basically, the premise is that oppression is ever-present and the challenge is to identify it and craft a narrative explaining why it is oppressive.
If anyone rejects this explanation, then they are oppressor, and you win the Woke game by default.
There is simply no way to engage with this line of thinking and it is a mistake to try.