There is no social relevance to all of the various –isms and phobias we tend to rant about, except when these manifest themselves in some sort of genuinely discriminatory action that is objectively unfair and has tangible results. In the absence of that, it doesn’t really matter if you hate anyone for their race, religion, sexuality, or whatever, nor if anyone hates you. No one has the right to force you to like or accept anyone else; no one is just automatically entitled to being uncritically embraced.